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    Things that really matter

    It was Lee and Rachel's farewell party, we had really nice food and great fun together (look at how we laughed in the photos!). However,maybe I was too busy in the past few weeks, maybe my mind was all set on organising the party or preparing for the gifts and games,  only until now, when the party is finished, when I lied down on my bed quietly, I just started to realize, that they are really leaving, and what it means to me.

    I started to know, for the past more than a year's time, we have been serving together in the core group of this church, we emailed each other so frequently to discuss the issues in church, we meet every week in cell group and Sunday service, we had team meeting almost once a month to make various decisions together, to work out problems and find solution, to pray together...We've done lots of things together, but now this is the end: They are leaving this country forever, the only time in our life, when God has put us serving together has passed, we will never get a chance to serve together so closely in a same church, we will have our life and serving in the different places in the world...

    So what? All the things we have dealt with together have passed, I can hardly remember the details, but it doesn't matter.. The relationship is still there, and I believe it will be lasting for life time.

    That is what really matters. That is why God has put us together. It makes little difference, in a short period of time, how we have made a decision or how we organised an event. But what really matters, is how we have loved each other, valued each other as a body in Christ, considered each other better than ourselves.

    Even I was told about this many times in teachings or bible studies, I only realized it deep in my heart, from this moment. Sometimes it is too easy for me, to get too busy dealing with the issues, decisions, tasks, but forgot to respect other's feeling or what they really need in the process. At times, I forgot to show enough care and love for one another, because I tended to see how the things is dealt with, how the target is achieved, more than how the person is loved.

    In our life, we have lots of things to do with different people. We meet a lot of people who did or will walk with us for part of the journey, some long, some short. At the end of the journey, they will all leave, includes our parents or partners. Then, what's left? You won't remember every single details of the journey, you won't be any more proud of how you have completed a task successfully, but what you will remember, is the love, the affection, the care you have showed for each other during the process, because that is the reason why God has put us together, that is what God value most.

    I pray, that in every single journey ahead of my life, I will enjoy the process and appreciate the people who have walked or are walking with me, because you are all the very precious gifts from God.

    God bless you, Rachel and Lee,thank you, for the wonderful journey, we have walked together.

     


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    TINTUSwrote:
    nice passage,
    this reminds me of the bible.
    God's desires are always far from we can imagine.
    God look at our hearts whereas men look at our acts.
    and .. to love your neighbours as you love yourself .

    haha ....well, kinda get me inspired and motivated~

    may his grace be with you always ,!!

    Stay blessed!
    Nov. 19
    Min Yinwrote:
    我很喜欢你里面提到的一点,就是关于爱!我们作为基督徒对与“彼此相爱”实在是熟悉到一个地步以至于麻木。我们爱,因为神先爱我们。可是,我们很多时候爱只是因为“方便”而已。
    我读完了你的文章,我能感受到你的感受,因为我们的生命当中有太多的人来来往往,我想到如果我离开了现在的教会,我也会有你这样的感慨。所以把握当下,爱身边的每一个人。我们教会明年定的主题就是Love in action。我觉得这个题目实在很妙,因为爱是个现在时啊!
    Nov. 19
    明心wrote:
    It is indeed a blessing to have met someone in life, and I believe only God can bring people and things together at the best time, which is why it's so beautiful for us all to have met, served in York still remain close to each other.
    Nov. 18
    欣 苗wrote:
    GOD is with us, thus the people who are in God will be together eternally. last year in york, i never thought about how important york was in my life. but now, i really miss you, miss our church, miss all of things in york. i know i grew up because of york, because of the happiness and sarrows which we have been through together. 停下来,回头看一看,闭上眼用心感觉,谢谢神,他的恩典永不变,抬起头,看着未来,他的恩典一定够用!
    Nov. 17
    dear !! I suppose u will share some things after Lee &Rachel leaving .....so deeply touched ! for me ,today was really a bad day ,although Rachel kept saying "thank Gad" in this morning on Billy 's car ....especially I looked after the train as it left the station....It was raining heavily...

    yes,there is no more important than the relations between people,however,what we felt?cold and detached,distrust.....even these exist among bro &sis ...what we did would be rubbish rubbish and rubbish if without focus on caring “man himself ”.....tks ur words that remind us an important thing which always be ignored ..
    Nov. 16
    Dennis Yauwrote:
    THIS PASSAGE MAKES ME CRIED........REALLY MISS.....
    Nov. 16
    Xia Zhuwrote:
    true...people matters much more than completing a task!
    Nov. 16

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